The Butcher, the Algorithm, and the Secret Sauce to CX
Lessons on how to do business from my Grandma ‘Nonna Elena’ and her butcher Antonio.
Previously on Giuseppe’s Glimpse: In the last episode, we explored how AI is reshaping business strategies, emphasizing the shift to outcome-driven models and the importance of AI augmenting—rather than replacing—human creativity. Missed it? Catch up here! ✨
Buongiorno everyone! 👋
Customer experience is a term we often associate with sleek apps, sophisticated algorithms, and AI-driven insights.
But my earliest lesson in customer experience came long before such tools existed.
I was 8 years old, standing in a tiny butcher shop 🥩 in Calabria, South of Italy, holding my grandmother Elena’s hand.
Antonio, the butcher, greeted us with a warm smile, addressed my grandmother by name, and immediately asked if she’d like “the usual”.
When I tugged at her hand to ask what “the usual” meant, her answer was simple but profound: “Antonio knows us. He knows what we like. And I trust him.”
A few moments later, Antonio returned with the “usual” and something extra. 🎁 He beamed at her and said, “I’ve added a little something special. I think you’re going to love it. And if you don’t, don’t worry—I’ll give you your money back next time”.
Antonio’s approach embodied the essence of great customer experience: familiarity, personalization, and trust. ❤️
These principles transcend time and technology. They’re as relevant in a Calabrian butcher shop a few decades ago as they are in today’s digital marketplace.
What made Antonio remarkable wasn’t just his skill as a butcher; it was his understanding of the human connection that underpins all commerce. ✨
CX essentials
At its core, customer experience (CX) is about how customers perceive their interactions with a business.
From the first touchpoint to the last, every moment shapes their impression. ✂️
While technology has redefined how we engage with customers, the fundamental principles remain the same:
#1 Know your customers 👥
Understanding customer preferences, habits, and needs is the bedrock of CX. Whether it’s Antonio’s “usual” 🥩 or Amazon’s “Recommended for you”, personalization builds connection.
#2 Show genuine care 💖
Customers want to feel valued. Caring isn’t just about resolving issues—it’s about anticipating needs and exceeding expectations. It’s the difference between a transactional relationship and a loyal one.
#3 Build trust 🤝
Trust is the currency of CX. Antonio’s promise to refund my grandmother if she didn’t like the product cemented their relationship. In today’s world, transparency, security, and consistency are critical to earning and maintaining customer trust.
Great customer experience is the foundation of good retail.
Companies that excel in CX not only foster loyalty but also drive growth. 📈 According to research, one in three consumers (32%) says they will walk away from a brand they love after just one bad experience.
It’s not just about the product or service—it’s about how it’s delivered. 🎁
Tech-savvy CX
While the principles of CX remain timeless, technology has revolutionized how we bring them to life. 💡
Tools like AI, predictive analytics, and CRM systems enable businesses to scale personalization and care in ways Antonio could only dream of.
For instance, predictive analytics allows companies to anticipate customer needs based on past behaviors. 📊
Think of how Spotify curates personalized playlists, introducing you to songs you didn’t even know you’d love. 🎶
Or how Sephora might email you product recommendations tailored to your beauty preferences and past purchases, creating a uniquely personalized experience. ✨
These tools enhance convenience and make customers feel understood. 🧡
However, technology is only as effective as the intention behind it.
Consider these examples:
Chatbots and automation 🤖💬
Chatbots can resolve simple inquiries instantly, but the option to escalate to a human agent is crucial for complex or sensitive issues.Data-driven insights 🔍
Companies like Amazon use data to predict customer needs, but misuse—such as overly invasive practices—can erode trust.Hyper-personalization 🎯
AI enables businesses to tailor experiences at scale, but finding the right balance between personalization and privacy is critical.
The key is to use technology as a tool to enhance, not replace, the essential human elements of CX: empathy, trust, and care. ❤️🤝
Why great CX wins the race
In today’s competitive landscape, customer experience is often the differentiator between companies that thrive and those that falter. 😟
A great product might attract customers, but a great experience keeps them coming back.
Here’s why CX is so vital:
💞 Loyalty over acquisition
It’s more cost-effective to retain an existing customer than to acquire a new one. Loyal customers not only return but also advocate for your brand.
💫 Emotional connection
A positive experience creates an emotional bond, making customers more likely to choose your brand over competitors.
🥇 Competitive differentiation
In markets where products and services are commoditized, CX becomes the key differentiator. It’s why Zappos is known for its customer service and Apple for its seamless user experience.
However, delivering exceptional CX requires a shift in mindset. 🧠
It’s not just a function of the customer service department; it’s a company-wide responsibility.
From marketing to product development to frontline employees, every team member plays a role in shaping the customer journey. 🗺️
What do butchers and bots have in common?
As I reflect on Antonio and my grandmother, I’m reminded that while tools and tactics evolve, the essence of customer experience remains unchanged. ⏳✨
It’s about people—their needs, emotions, and trust.
So, while we navigate this era of rapid technological advancement, let’s not forget the basics. Great CX starts with understanding and caring for our customers, just as Antonio did for my Nonna Elena. 👵
Whether you’re leveraging AI or a warm smile, the goal is the same: to create moments that matter and relationships that last.
What steps are you taking to elevate your customer experience?
Share your thoughts—I’d love to hear them! 💬
Stay curious! 🙌
-gs
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Buona sera. Spero che Antonio, non abbia unito qualcosa con la "nduja" o il peperoncino, al resto! Conosco, per esperienza personale, l'uso che si fa della spezia in questione in Calabria, avendo metà famiglia originaria di quelle parti, che non ne disdegna l'utilizzo, a volte, abbondante. :-) Per il resto, preferisco per molti acquisti, sempre il contatto umano, rispetto a quello che può essere la possibilità offerta dall'"online" ma resterò vintage, anche in questo! Nonostante tutti gli algoritmi si ostinino a propormi merci di vario tipo.
Con un volo pindarico, tempo fa, ho visto le immagini del ponte in Honduras, che ha resistito al cataclisma che si era abbattuto sulla zona, ma per uno strano scherzo del destino, sembra messo da una mano invisibile, in un luogo dove non avrà nessuna utilità, in effetti.